ka tasya and ka nita- new mood healer ♥ ♥

dear reader, hi and how are you?
I am totally fine :)

days passe and weeks gone with time. how's your day dear?
I'm having a lot of fun days with my ka tasya and ka nita. ever heard their name before?
well, actually I knew them just 5 months ago while I'm attending somekind of ceremonial things
then.... we're starting to spend time together.
they are totally kind! they're nice and friendly
they also my mood healer, they're my best after my parents

love you my katasya and kanita


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xoxo- bonita

10.00 a.m
turn on my computer
have a sight-seeing my old photos
and I realize, that I miss that time...

Here they goes some photos ♥♥♥♥

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beth, where have you been? me miss you...

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The art of differences

"Are we an innocent adolescent or simply addicted to sweet illusion of the world?"

Maybe I’m a kind of melancholic person, or some kind of a girl who loves to shares my heart to other, at least to a close friend. A friend of mine said that I’m a “drama queen” girl.

Okay fyi, I’m not a drama queen. I'm just a kind of person who can’t keep my problem by my self, and I need somebody to help me out or give me some suggestion,even sometimes it’s a bad suggestion and I wouldn’t do it.

But still, whatever I said about my self, my friend still said that I’m a kind of a drama queen or something. Once again, no I’m not! Is that a huge mistake to tell somebody about your problem? Is that a sin that your best buddy know about things that made you cry? You decide dude…

Girls will be girls and boys still boys. Girl usually thinks with their heart, in the other hand Boys thinks logically.

When boys said something extra sweet just like the sweetest peach in the lime tea, girls believe it-and when girls said that they believe in, they really mean it.

In other hand, boys will simply fall in lust just if they saw a pretty creature with mini skirt and white transparent shirt- for those boys who read this; you have to confess that you ever did this before. Lol-ing

Yes, girls will simply fall in love when they find out a charm boys with extraordinary way of listening and giving them advice. But boys will simply fall in lust (or also love?) when they find out girls with extraordinary way of make up, with the endorse of mini dress or something.

In this case, I just want to say that girls sometimes make a holy-sin by thrusting their ears, and boys sometimes get into trouble by only thrusting their eyes when seeing sweet creatures, like sexy girls or something.

From my explanation above, I just want to say that everybody has weaknesses. Maybe my kind of melancholic stuff is my weakness. But I’m sure all you, yes you! The cosmopolitan person, you have your own weakness.

Yes, weaknesses are also a kind of differences. Naturally, while our country is struggling with urbanization problems, overpopulation, lack of jobs, sickening traffic jam, never-ending battle between politic party, terrible pollution and worse fashion, people and society likes to judge people by the differences they made and things they have done. But so what? In this world we’re living with differences. You and I, we’re totally different! But we live in rite? When the world still spinning, flower still blooming, and farmer still cultivate the harvest, people will always talking. There always be friend and foe, hated or love it.

Once again everybody is different, but as strange as it sound, some people often refuse it.

Are we an innocent adolescent or simply addicted to sweet illusion of the world?

Well, let’s people talks about what-so-ever they want. Let they think and gossiping about what-so-ever they need. Society is a place for us to stand up for our own differences. No need to worry about differences.

In brief, dare to be different to not a crime! Dare to speak what you want is your human rights! Coco channel once said, “To be irreplaceable one supposed to be different”. May we all be irreplaceable in our way of different.

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bonita <3

DIGGING YOUR GOLD MINE OF FRIEND

"thousand friends are less, but one enemy is more than enough"

A friend of mine, call her miss D is a very quite and unfriendly person, just if you don’t know her.

Her SMIZE eyes would bite your heart tenderly, because she’ll see you extra sharp and tear up your bravery (am I too exaggerating?). But, then I know that she’s a totally a good person.

A good listener, with a crazy attitude. A good girlfriend but also an emotional person. A religious girl with an open-minded attitude.( dear miss D, you owe me so much for all of this darlaa)

Well, I’m totally wrong about her at once. Yeah, my first impression to her is not as good as my first impression to my mood healer LOL.

To be honest, miss D is actually just an ordinary friend to me before we’re end up as a room mate for 4 days. And each day we’re going insane and intimate. Just imagine the way she told me almost all of her sadness and emotion about her boyfriend, and also her dilemma with someone (censored).

Somehow I feel like she knows me for a whole of my life just like my mood healer did.

Is she my soul-mate? I mean my true friend trough the Frenemies? Yes, I’m still wondering.. .

What about my other friends? Are they just friend? Or they also my true friend? Oh geez, to be honest, I do confuse about this. DILEMA OH DILEMA. How do I cope with this?

For me, a friend means a lot. They give me power and strength to do all my activity; they’re my first driver or tukang ojek, my second home, and my third mom for me. They give me joy, comfort, and support when I need most.

They’re means a lot. What do you think?

My mom said not to thrust people 100%. Thrust them 40 % and give the rest to God.

But I think, my mom could be mistaken about this. Thrusting people for me is giving them, all that I believe, make them thrust me too. That’s why when I said that I thrust someone; I truly give them my thrust.

And, since I was about to have a close friend, I thrust them whole heartedly.

Maybe, it’s just too risky to thrust someone whole heartedly, but I do like that. Yeah even As a result, I ever in trouble of forgetting someone I ever thrust and I was just end up with kind of broken-hearted (curcol- but now I’m totally okay!)

But, In this kind of cosmocity with all the cosmomisery, finding a soul mate, true friend, spouse, girlfriend-boyfriend is like digging in the gold mine. It’ll take almost all of your passion and patience, skill and care to filter tons of black sand and find out your tiny piece of gold. Principally if you’re about to find a friend, find it with heart and don’t you ever deal with your ego. Because EGO is actually the true frenemies for you and for your supposed-to-be-friend

HAPPY FRIENDSHIP ALL, may you have a genuine friend.

*hugs and kisses*

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Bonita

I need a refrigerator time capsule

Have you ever pass the day when you want it to be freeze? I do.

Hmm, let’s see, there a lot of memorable things happened for at least 1 year. Count it down darlaa..
HERE THEY GO DARLING...

First, is the day when I met bassist. Do I have to tell you about this? Well, I do really care for bassist, but then he left me with nothing but a “in-a-relationship” status. count in it also happen because of me-yes, that's my mistakes, but how could he left me without any permission? well, whatever it is, I wish him the best.

Second, is the day when I cut my hair really short until all of my friends said that I am crazy. Maybe yes I do. I do insane about this thing. Anyway, this is my father suggestion to cut my long hair until this short.

Third, is the day of ISPO. Whoaaa, I do really want to freeze this time! I wish I could. Don’t you know that I had such a good quality and leisure time with my new friend from other City? They’re really nice and to good to be true.

Fourth, is the day when I spend my night with my best room mate ever!! She is Deisy F.H. the craziest girl I ever met. My first impression to her is bad. Because she’s looking like a quite person and not-really-friendly. But anyway then I find out that all of my first impression is totally a mistakes!
She’s a nice person, and a good listener also!We had such a intimate time together as a room mate.

Fifth, is the day when I had a really bad mood at ISPO. I still remember the date. If I’m not mistaken, it was 3rd march 2010. I feel so moody and I just don’t like that day. But hopefully TADAAAAA JENG JENG… here they come the savior of my day!!! Yeps, he’s my mood healer. Thanks a bunch my mood healer.

Well, that’s 5 of my thousand day that I want to be freeze.

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Bonita!!

meeting yeah yeahh

our meeting for retreat

see that picture? sok sibuk gk jelas gitu deh, cerita nya sih lagi rapat buat retreat Gereja tgl 19, 20,21 juni. ckck tinggal 2 minggu lagi, rapat nya baru sekarang. benar-benar ya..

from left - right : Nadya,Ully,Elizabeth, Mian.
actually, masih ada 2 orang lagi : Douglas and David.

just wish our retreat goes well yaaa... we're really need your support guys! supaya, anak anak katekisasi 2008-2009 KOMPAK!
wish our retreat goes well yaaaa

nadya-ully-elizabet- mian

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